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One of the most common questions I’ve been asked

One of the most common questions I’ve been asked over the years is how to quickly tune into your feminine nature.

I get this question from women in corporate offices feeling calloused and bruised as they fight to the top of the ladder, or from wives hiding away in their castles looking for the flame to rekindle the spark in their marriages; most women want to know how to be softer, more supported, and deeply loved while living her most authentic life.

Question, can you relate?

I have been teaching the power of femininity and using it in my own life for years. What I do know for sure is that being naturally feminine, while a distinct experience, will look different for every woman. It is also a side of the coin that we don’t get to see often, so it can seem very confusing to figure out.

What I can say with certainty is that no matter what your circumstances are, in order to know how to access your own femininity, YOU NEED TO KNOW WHO YOU AREE.

I’m not talking about knowing who you are according to society, or social media. It’s also not about who your parents, your husband, or your children think you are. Getting in tune with your feminine design is about:
✨Recognizing what gift you are here to give,
✨Understanding who you are here to become, and
✨Knowing the purpose you are created to serve.

The hardest part of all of this for most women is that, In order to know those things YOU MUST BE NURTURED.

Allowing yourself to be nurtured helps those around you stand taller and appreciate your value, while helping you to clearly see the actions required to create consistent success in all areas of your life.

Doing it all yourself is called a bottleneck, not

Doing it all yourself is called a bottleneck, not a strategy.

We are no longer glamorizing being a one-woman army 🚫
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It's tiring and it gives you bags – ask me how I know. 😂⁠
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...and who taught us that doing it alone was glamorous in the first place. 🤔⁠

Many times, women who have been FORCED to lean on their masculine power find it hard to trust that folks will actually support them. It can also be that you KNOW that when you do it, you'll do it the right way.⁠
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But being (or feeling) unsupported in so many areas of life becomes exhausting, and even isolating.⁠

In Feminine Success®, we help you connect the dots and build the type of support systems that you need to truly embrace an easier way.⁠
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BEING VULNERABLE IS A PROCESS, especially when you've learned to only be strong and independent, so we approach it in a way that builds on the skills you already have, while sharpening the ones that have been dormant.⁠

To break free of the "strong, independent" mindset, you need to know how to leverage the relationships in your life in a better way.⁠
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With the right strategy and systems in place you truly can experience ease in your life by strengthening the relationships around you. ⁠

The November cohort of The Feminine Success® Masterclass is opening soon! If you're tired of the strong, independent role BUT you also refuse to be a damsel in distress – this coaching experience is for you.⁠
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Be warned, we go DEEP. But the beauty of the framework is that I don't leave you in the deep, and you get just the right amount of tools, instruction, and community to make the transformation last.⁠

For those interested in joining the waitlist, forward this email to my DM WITH your email address so that we can send you your personal invitation link 💌

Random Pop Up Live w/ BOTH OF US 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🎉. Discussing relationship stuff like…proving your partner, setting new standards, and not settling for the lames.

Watch & let us know your thoughts. It was totally random, unplanned, and very much like walking into our living room and sitting in on a convo.

✨Femininity is a blueprint NOT a box✨ SWIPE t

✨Femininity is a blueprint NOT a box✨

SWIPE to see what the FS family had to say 👉🏽

What word comes to mind for you?

We used to pray for times like this… to see our

We used to pray for times like this… to see our dreams unfold.

From the beginning our mantra has been, “God is faithful to the faithful”

The faith moves we’ve had to make in the face of fear, the trust we built in the face of trauma & intense change, the way we praise through every problem…

Time has taught us that no matter what is burning down around us, the seeds inside of us are destined to thrive.

Who knew that ashes feed the soil? Who knew that scorched earth could be the most fertile?

I love you for life @showthyselfaman
and beyond 🙏🏾

My mom shared a powerful lesson with me back when

My mom shared a powerful lesson with me back when I was in the grips of a bad relationship. I was young and I thought I knew it all , but didn’t seem to know enough to leave a toxic environment and stay gone. My mother said to me, “never let a person enter your life who does not value you the way that you value you.”

Here’s what I had to ask myself:

1️⃣ Do I value me?

2️⃣ Was I fully valuing all of the benefits that I brought to the table?

3️⃣ Did I know how to require the same of others?

These questions are paramount to what it means to be a feminine woman in the modern day, not only within the confines of a romantic relationship, but also in our friendships, professional relationships, and especially in our work.

Knowing your value is what compels you to ask for what you truly want in life.

The woman who knows her value is not afraid to ask for more in her relationships, her negotiations, and, most importantly, she’s not afraid to ask for more from herself.

Knowing your value is being keenly aware of your gift and what you bring to the world.

Value doesn’t diminish or increase with the validation of others. It was set before God placed you here, and it’s your job to uphold it.

Stop compromising your care. If you keep ignoring

Stop compromising your care. If you keep ignoring the cracks in the foundation, eventually you’ll have to tear it ALL down, just to rebuild.

Truth is, You’re not covering the cracks as well as you think.

Remember, there’s value in exposing the vulnerability.

You’ve worked too hard and come too far to allow negligence to bring you to your knees. Nurture your needs, queen.

Last night, the ladies and I reviewed their rechar

Last night, the ladies and I reviewed their recharging practices.

While some women were able to lay out a full spread of things they do to recharge themselves regularly, others learned that giving themselves time and grace to get there is also important.

I remember investing hundreds of hours and thousands of dollars in programs that gave me the tools I needed to succeed, but my MIND was what needed to change.

I was in an intimate relationship with doing things the hard way because I felt like it wasn’t worth it or wouldn’t last if it came too easy.

I felt like hard work was my proof to God that I was deserving of being blessed. My sacrifice.

Then I realized that God never asked us to sacrifice our rest, our love life, our social life, or our joy – for favor and blessings.

We are required to sacrifice our distractions though, and I realized years ago that SOMETIMES I was using work to distract me from the goodness that was available to me because underneath the distraction I was afraid that at some point “the other shoe would drop” and that goodness would go away.

If this is you, I’m here to tell you that you deserve seasons of ease, you deserve to take rest seriously, to take care of your mind and body.

What you give to God doesn’t always need to be a broken and work-worn vessel.

If you can release (bit by bit, or all at once) the mindset that shames you into being the sacrificial lamb, you’ll remember that God always has a ram in the bush waiting for you.

For the last month I’ve committed myself to play, joy, and elevated ease. It’s required me to get out of my mind and into my life, to invest more faith – and every part of my life has reaped immense rewards.

Think about the areas of your life that feel the hardest and most exhausting – consider that the struggle may be your call to release and receive.

Do you know how?

When you’re ready to elevate how you do this thing called life, we’re ready to support you!

#Share with a woman who needs to know that overwhelm is not her portion. 🙏🏾

“No.” is a fundamental tool required for well

“No.” is a fundamental tool required for wellness. 
As we should all know by now, “No.” is a complete sentence; you do not have to explain yourself or defend yourself when it comes to your “Yes” & your “No.” 
But what happens when we feel guilty for saying it? 
👉🏽 Swipe to discover the Feminine Success Reframe

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